- An incredible act of love not recognized for what it may be. A misunderstanding about yourself. An interpretation of events or perception of self that may be inaccurate or incomplete. The target of mentally that is blaming and punishing. The role of target in a game of fear. How can you interpret perpetrator without simultaneously interpreting victim? And vice versa? Are there other ways to interpret these arrangements? How many games require two players in order to even play them at all? What do we choose when someone has been hurt? And who are we when we make that choice? Do we choose more blame and hurting? Revenge? Or can we start to choose healing instead?