- Ways you are not being your own best friend or choosing your true desires. Ways you may be acting against yourself. A misunderstood part of yourself. A role that is necessary in order to play out certain games of competition. Misperception about those you perceive as others. The true enemy in this reality is fear. You will find that if you challenge fear in these ways, it is not really there. The people you are convinced are your enemies are not who you think they are. They are not thinking what you think they are thinking. They do not truly want what you are convinced they do.