- Ways in which you do not agree with yourself. Ways in which you are choosing against yourself and your truest desires. Places in the mirror that you do not know how to interpret. Events that do not seem to make sense. A crossroads at which we must seemingly choose one direction at the expense of exploring the other. In the cards, a conflict refers to any two-pole arrangement, like us or them, me or you, good or bad, right or wrong. When we are ready to face ourselves in the mirror we find that we exist as a paradox, not a conflict. That means there are three parts to ourselves and three perspectives to he heard. It is in embracing that third perspective that we can resolve our conflict, heal fear and learn to see ourselves in those we perceive as others.