- A huge and important misperception you are making. Something in your life that is backwards. A lie you are living as if it were true. A place in the mirror where you are hurting yourself in a way you do not realize. A form of insanity. Mental backwardness. Two-pole (analogue) thought. The result of reality that is a reflection in a mirror, lost from the awareness it is so. The key to healing the self lies here. Why? Because blame is not real. It is as simple as that. The cards teach that healing blame walks the path of healing fear. How many forms can blame take? Do you recognize blame when you hear it? Is blame connected to any emotional experiences? Anger? Sadness? Guilt? Fear? What are you feeling when you feel blamed? Related to Insanity.